People who tend to make excuses for their poor relationships keep justifying them by saying opposites attract. This way, they justify the miserable relationship they are currently in. Nothing is further from the truth. Opposites do not attract. Take two magnets put them together. Positives will always attract positives and negatives will always attract negatives. Poor relationships are always the result of negative thinking individuals getting together. You see it on TV and in the movies where the girl says, “I can’t understand how all these dead beats find a way to my door?” The reason is because she sends out a beacon that says, “ I really don’t like myself, so I will settle for anything.” The guy who goes after women like this in a sense says, “ I can get away with anything with a girl like this so why shouldn’t I?”
You will attract the kind of person that is a perfect match for you. So, if your relationships never seem to work out, you only have yourself to blame. The basis of all workable relationships is love and happiness and that means it’s up to you.
You must love God and love yourself before you can really love another human being. You also have to make up your mind that only you can make you happy. Once you commit yourself to matching up and be a part of a loving universe, then providence moves too, and unforeseen prosperity comes your way. The right people will arrive to assist you in every aspect of your life. Those who would support you in your career appear. The right person who will help you create your perfect home life, all of the sudden will pop up out of nowhere. If it’s money you are looking for the right financing magically appears. People with the same interest you have suddenly are everywhere. Your soul mate appears out of the crowd, a chance meeting, a missed taxi, a turn down the wrong street, nothing happens by accident.
There is no such thing as a coincidence. Coincidence is a mathematical term “coincide,” meaning when two angles come together they fit perfectly. You will have to let go of any resistance to your ability to attract the right people or you won’t recognize them when they show up.
Be aware the right people are looking for you and they won’t recognize you if you’re buried under a cloud of self-pity, loneliness, or a constant complainer. In fishing, you have to use the right bait. The right bait for you is love and happiness.
Today’s Exercise: Look for a coincidence as a sign.
Today’s Affirmation: I am enthusiastic and confident.
Points to Ponder: Once you commit yourself to matching up and be part of a loving Universe, then providence moves too, and unforeseen prosperity comes your way.
